Build Mastery
Do one thing daily that builds competence and confidence
Build Mastery is the practice of doing one thing each day that gives you a sense of accomplishment or competence. Over time, these small wins accumulate into genuine confidence and resilience against emotional vulnerability.
Build Mastery is part of the ABC PLEASE skills — it’s the ‘B’ in ABC. Accumulate positives, Build mastery, Cope ahead.
How It Works
Choose activities that are challenging but possible. The goal is to stretch just slightly beyond your comfort zone — not so easy it’s boring, not so hard you set yourself up for failure.
Examples
- Learn a new recipe or cook a meal from scratch
- Exercise or do a physical activity you’ve been avoiding
- Complete a task you’ve been procrastinating on
- Practice a hobby or skill (instrument, art, language)
- Read something educational or challenging
Tips for Success
- Plan your mastery activity the night before
- Start small — even 5 minutes counts
- Increase difficulty gradually over time
- Acknowledge your accomplishment — don’t minimize it